Weight Loss: Are You a Human Garbage Can?
by Kathryn Martyn, M.NLP
What to Do with the Leftovers?
Okay, tell me if you've ever done this: It's Monday late
afternoon. You decided yesterday that starting today you were
going to 1) eat right, and 2) start to get regular exercise, and
3) give up all your bad habits. So, you're picking things up
around the house and starting to notice all the little bits and
pieces of leftovers from the past weekend. Namely, cookies here,
and small bits of candy there. In my house today I noticed I had
three large shortbread cookies (I'm overly fond of shortbread
cookies with icing), several bags of the candy that resemble real
rocks which I keep saying I want to put in a jar, but I haven't
found just the right jar (for display, you know), and the
leftovers from the latest summer picnic, which in my case is
about five pounds of fruit salad - not bad in itself, but I can
only eat so much fruit salad.
And Then There's the Wine
Of course, I had to buy some wine at a tasting on Saturday (I
always buy it, don't know why I think those wine tasting's are
such a great deal - they always entice me to buy), and now
there's an open bottle waiting.
So, my thoughts are, "Do I eat this, or not?" "Do I throw it away
and WASTE it?" "Oh, my, dear no. That's not a good idea," I
think. Oh, I just remembered there is also an entire plate of
large cinnamon rolls (Cinnabon style) I made Friday night.
They'll be stale soon. That's not good. It'd be such a shame to
throw them all away, and I only ate one.
And so it goes. Do I talk myself into eating up the last remnants
of the weekend, thus going into Tuesday and possibly Wednesday
with the taste of weekend indulgence still on my lips, or do I
decide, really decide, I've had enough? It's time to eat better,
like I just said, last night. Remember last night? It seems so
long ago now ...
What if We Just Start Tomorrow?
It's interesting how easily we talk ourselves right out of what
we had decided yesterday was such a good idea. So what's wrong
with just starting tomorrow? What's wrong is that tomorrow never
comes. It's always today, right now. You'll never reach that
elusive tomorrow. Yes, the date on the calendar changes, but you,
standing where you are, right here, right now, are still here, in
the present. You can't live in the past, nor can you live in the
future. You can only live in the moment.
Decide Right Now: What Do you Want?
So if you want to decide, then decide right now. What do you
want, really want for yourself? Do you want to continue to
indulge yourself at every turn, or do you want to exercise just a
bit more discipline and see if you can get into better shape?
It's not about what you'll miss out on, it's about what you will
gain. Better health, more energy, endurance. You'll feel better,
you'll look better. It's all about what you'll gain, but in the
immediate moment, it's so easy to think only of right now. Yes,
but right now this would taste so good, wouldn't it, and there's
always tomorrow.
I've found that when I make a mental shift, a real shift, not
just a decision but a true change in my thinking, then I follow
through, and not until then. All the times I try to talk myself
into doing things that I don't really want to do, are not
successful. Probably they're not successful because I don't
really want to do them.
How do you get yourself motivated and stay that way? I start with
a list. List all the reasons you want to lose some weight. Think
in terms of a mini goal of five or 10 pounds. Make it a one month
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BIO:
Kathryn Martyn, Master NLP Practitioner, author of the free
e-book: Changing Beliefs, Your First Step to Permanent Weight
Loss, and owner of http://www.OneMoreBite-Weightloss.com
Get The Daily Bites: Inspirational Mini Lessons Using EFT and
NLP for Ending the Struggle with Weight Loss.
http://www.onemorebite-weightloss.com/getnews.html
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