How to cope with agitation in your loved one who has Alzheimer’s by William G. Hammond, JD

·Eliminate background noise.

·Give plenty of time to respond.

·If he/she cannot find words, sometimes it helps if you finish the sentence.

·Repeat information when needed – repetition is good.

·Frequently affirm/praise him/her, even for the smallest things, i.e. “Good job,” “Thank you,” “You’re the best!”

·Validate feelings.

·Use touch. Touch the shoulder, knee, back, hand.

·Give hugs many times a day.

·Don’t argue – you’ll never win.

·Laugh together.

·If your talk becomes “heated,” stop. Go back and try again later.

·Don’t talk down. Respect him/her as an adult.

·Don’t’ correct him/her.

·Don’t demand. Ask nicely.

·Don’t take adverse behavior personally.

·Slow down! Hurrying increases frustration.

Another issue in agitation is non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication is important to be aware of, both in what we are communicating to our loved ones, and what they are communicating to us. Non-verbal communication is expressed by persons with dementia through body languages, facial expression and tone of voice. At times, the Alzheimer's patient can look into your eyes and seem to read your soul, almost like a “sixth sense.” They are sensitive and intuitive to people and things around them. They know when someone is being sincere or not. Body language is as important as their facial expressions. For example, if your loved one suddenly gets up and walks around, that may indicate the need to go the bathroom. Be alert to those signs and give big hugs as much as possible. A gentle touch will make their life much easier and relaxed.

Environment can also cause agitation. Examples would be where temperatures are too cold or too hot, or lights too strong or too dim. Try to set up an environment that is relaxing for your loved one. It will make his or her life easier. And as your loved one with Alzheimer's relaxes, so will you.

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BIO:

William G. Hammond, JD is a nationally known elder law attorney and founder of The Alzheimer’s Resource Center. He is a frequent guest on radio and television and has developed innovative solutions to guide families who have a loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s. For more information you can visit his website at www.BeatAlzheimers.com

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