Stop Telling Yourself It's Too Hard To Lose Weight
by Kathryn Martyn, M.NLP
Stop Telling Yourself it's Too Hard to Lose Weight
Telling yourself you have to "struggle with this
weight issue for the rest of my life," is as good
as telling yourself there's no point in trying.
"Why bother? I'll just gain it right back. It's no
use. I might as well eat more cake. Poor me. Life
is hard. You know the drill. Life's a beach.
Stop the struggle by stopping the self talk that
supports the struggle. You've heard it before -
what you focus on is what you receive. No where is
that more true than in believing it is a struggle
to stay healthy. Who would want to be healthy if
it's such a horrible struggle? Yet, you've
probably seen people who are fit, healthy and
happy? You might even know a few. They seem to
bounce when they walk. They're animated, and
excited about life, and no, if you asked them,
they wouldn't say it's a struggle. "What do you
mean," they'd ask? Struggle? Nah, I like it this
way," and they'd mean it.
Forget the notion that you have to struggle and
eat celery sticks for dinner. It's not true.
Despite the fact that you've lost the weight
before and gained it right back too, despite your
belief that you can't even look at food without
gaining weight. All of those thoughts are just
more beliefs that are keeping you stuck. What you
focus on becomes your reality.
What if You Never Got Hungry?
I'm a prime example. I don't struggle. Some days I
eat a lot. Some days not so much. Some days very
little. Yesterday I ate my usual breakfast and
then, strangely, I just didn't feel hungry all
day. I felt different somehow. Not ill, but I just
didn't want to eat. "What's up with this?," I
thought to myself, but I decided to just ride it
out and see what happened. Well, I'm here to tell
you that nothing happened. I lived to tell another
story, see another day. Nothing fell from the sky
and the world didn't stop spinning because I
didn't eat much yesterday. It was just another
day.
Today I ate a few handfuls of malted milk balls.
No big deal to me, but I know many of you are
thinking, "I'd never be able to eat just some, I'd
have to eat them all," and that is my point.
Telling yourself you can't eat "some," or as many
as you want, but that you believe you'd be
compelled to eat them all, no matter how many
there were is a belief that is keeping you stuck.
I don't believe that to be true, and so, for me it
is not true.
Changing a Fundamental Belief with EFT
How do you change a fundamental belief? You start
with basic EFT using it for everything that comes
up, even though it may not seem related. Every
worry, fear, doubt, struggle. Use it on
everything, and those issues that do make a
difference in your eating will start dissolving
away. Try it - what have you got to lose but some
weight?
What's EFT? It's Emotional Freedom Training and
it's taking the world by storm as an easy, self
administered practice to help reduce or eliminate
the emotional issues that keep us stuck. Free
information available at EmoFree.com. I added EFT
to my toolkit as soon as I learned it because it's
easy to learn, easy to use, and it's effective.
Remember those healthy folks I mentioned earlier?
They don't view how they eat or how much they
exercise as a struggle at all. They are active
because they want to be active, and they eat foods
that make them feel great. They probably eat a lot
of the same things you eat too - I'm talking about
everyday folks who have learned to feel good about
themselves. None of them are perfect - despite the
common belief that there is some "perfect" body,
it's just not true. Everyone has a wrinkle here,
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BIO:
Kathryn Martyn, Master NLP Practitioner, author of the free
e-book: Changing Beliefs, Your First Step to Permanent Weight
Loss, and owner of http://www.OneMoreBite-Weightloss.com
Get The Daily Bites: Inspirational Mini Lessons Using EFT and
NLP for Ending the Struggle with Weight Loss.
http://www.onemorebite-weightloss.com/getnews.html
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