Five Ways to Combat the Blues and Win
by Mike Moore
2. Thought Replacement
If the blues come from our negative thoughts and
we are able to control the thoughts we have then
whenever we have a fearful, disturbing, lonely ,or
depressing thought visualize it leaving your mind
and being replaced by a happier more enjoyable
one. Create a bank of happy, pleasant thoughts to
use as replacements.
3. Forget yourself in the service of others.
I think it was Tennyson who said “ We must lose
ourselves in action lest we wither is despair.” He
was suffering the loss of a dear friend and found
that serving others helped him forget his grief
for awhile and helped him heal. There is nothing
more effective than forgetting yourself in the
service of other to banish the blues. “ I had the
blues because I had no shoes when upon the street
I met a man who had no feet.”
4. Learn how to relax.
Frequently the blues make an appearance when we
are stressed and over-extended. Physical and
mental relaxation help restore calmness and peace
to our frantic lives and in the process enhance
our resistance to the blues. By the way laughter
is an excellent way to cut stress in half and
promote healing relaxation. It is impossible to
worry when we laugh and worry is one of the major
stress inducers.
5. Look for the comedy in your chaos.
Funny things happen to us everyday. When they do
most of us give a brief chuckle and move on with
life. In my book “ Light Up With Laughter” I teach
the art of “Mining the Moment” whereby I encourage
my readers to extract every ounce of humor from
the funny things that happen to us daily. When you
do this and give yourself permission to laugh
heartily and enjoy fully you reap the many
therapeutic benefits laughter provides. It helps
to constantly recall that life is just too serious
to be taken seriously.
As the song says,the blues come to us all now and
then. They are just part of the human condition.
The next time you have the blues try some of these
suggestions and experience how you too can combat
the blues and win.
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Mike Moore is an international speaker on “ Humor
and Stress Management”, Humor in the Workplace”
and “ Humor and Human Potential” His articles and
cartoons have appeared in publications throughout
Canada and the USA.
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BIO:
Mike Moore is an international speaker/ humorist whose articles and cartoons have appeared in publications throughout Canada and the USA.
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